From the words of the famous, Coco Chanel….
“A girl should be two things: who and what she wants.”
Now the words of a super model, Tyra Banks…
“Never dull your shine for somebody else.”
It is often difficulty to find yourself when you living life in the darkness. You also give yourself to others but never to yourself. Yes, I been there and done that. Now, I am learning to move on from that. One thing, that we all have difficulty with is finding our sensuality. Yes, I am going there. We live in a society where sex sales in both worlds. A person does not have to be about sex or the dress the part of sex.
What makes you sensual? Sensuality is defined by Merriam-Webster as “Relating to or consisting of the gratification of the senses or the indulgence of appetites.” Sensuality is an extreme. It is a way to live life with the senses fully aware of the pleasurable aspects of nature, the human body, joy and interactions with others. Sensuality is focusing on the physical enjoyment of the body. I don’t feel that sensuality is something that a person is born with and that it can be learned. It is a matter of focusing the mind differently to use all the senses in a situation. When you go for a walk focus on the sights and sounds of it, and feel the emotions of those you pass. Surround yourself with different textures. Once you know what sights, sounds, touches, and smells effect you most deeply you are able to surround yourself with those things to be more sensual. At least that is what I do. Be Sensual and one with yourself.
Special Thanks to Isodel of Isomotion for making this wonderful pose for me.
Until next time, Tosha B. XoXo
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